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Dating...

22 February 2005

I'm bored tonight, so I'll share something here with my readers. Am 21 this year, considered as a legal, lawfully adult, so there's nothing beyond the borders that I can't talk about. Let's talk about DATING.

You met someone. You think he interest you and he thinks you're the one for him. Both of you decided to bring this friendship to another level. So both of you dated each other. Talk about interests. pastimes, share your childhood, what fears most and your "past experience" (am not talking bout sex relations with your Exs here but bout Exs) to make sure he/she won't make you repeat the mistakes again. And the both of you felt that it's time to "announce" as an official pair, you started bringing the significantly other half to outings with each other's friends. Both of you cling each other as to have a "shield" against outsiders, as if saying "He's mine" or "She's my girlfriend".

Slowly, after several weeks, your friends thinks that he/she is the right one for you. You bring the better half to visit your parents. For shy guys, they will borrow an excuse to bring her home. Excuses like "I forgot to bring my keys so had to go back to take", then he will waved to to his mum in an embarassed manner and say "this is so-and-so". At that instance, the family will know they will have another family member-to-be. For those daring guys or those who brought their girlfriends home so many times shouldn't have problem showing the "current Her" to the family. It'll be a simple "My girlfriend" with finger pointing to her and drag her into his room.

jOoOoOey sparkled at 10:08 pm